Have questions about therapy, what to expect, or where to begin? Find answers to some of the most common questions below.
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You don't have to be in crisis to benefit from couples therapy. Some couples come because they are experiencing significant conflict, betrayal, or disconnection, while others simply recognize patterns they don't want to continue.
If you find yourselves having the same arguments, feeling more like roommates than partners, struggling with trust or intimacy, or having difficulty feeling heard and understood, couples therapy may be a helpful next step.
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You don't have to know the answer before coming to therapy. Sometimes couples need a safe space to slow things down, understand what has happened within their relationship, and have conversations that have been difficult to navigate on their own.
Therapy can help you gain greater clarity about your relationship and what each of you wants moving forward.
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My goal is not to determine who is right and who is wrong. I work to create a space where both partners can feel heard, seen, and understood.
We'll look at the patterns happening between you and the role each person plays in those patterns, while also creating room for individual experiences, feelings, needs, and accountability.
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You're not alone. Couples can become caught in cycles where the topic changes, but the underlying pattern stays the same.
Part of our work is identifying that cycle, understanding what's underneath it, and learning how to interrupt it so you can begin responding to each other differently.
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Betrayal can significantly change the sense of safety within a relationship, but you don't have to determine the future of your relationship immediately.
Therapy can provide a structured place to process the hurt, understand what happened, establish appropriate boundaries and accountability, and determine what rebuilding trust would require if you choose to move forward together.
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It's common for one partner to feel more ready for therapy than the other.
If your partner isn't ready to participate, individual therapy can still give you a place to explore your own emotions, relationship patterns, boundaries, and the changes that are within your control.
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Absolutely. Emotional and physical intimacy are important parts of many relationships, and therapy should be a place where couples can discuss them without shame or embarrassment.
We may explore differences in desire, affection, communication around sex, feelings of rejection or pressure, emotional safety, boundaries, or ways to reconnect. These conversations are always approached respectfully and at a pace that feels appropriate.
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Therapy doesn't have to be reserved for relationships that are struggling. Couples counseling can also be an intentional investment in your relationship.
We can work on communication, emotional and physical intimacy, understanding each other's needs, preparing for transitions, strengthening friendship, and developing tools that can help protect your relationship as life changes.
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The Gottman Method is a research-based approach to couples therapy that focuses on strengthening friendship and connection, improving communication, managing conflict, increasing intimacy, and creating shared meaning within a relationship.
I have completed Levels 1 and 2 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and incorporate Gottman-informed strategies and interventions into my work with couples.
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Sometimes what looks like anger, withdrawal, criticism, or defensiveness on the surface is connected to something deeper: the need to feel safe, valued, wanted, or understood by your partner.
An emotionally focused and attachment-based approach helps us look underneath the conflict and understand the emotions and needs driving the patterns between you.
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There will certainly be conversations, but I want therapy to be more than talking about what went wrong that week.
We'll work to understand patterns and emotions while also developing tangible strategies you can use outside of therapy. I believe therapy isn't simply something we do for an hour each week. It's something we learn to live in our everyday relationships.
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A Couples Intensive provides extended, dedicated time to focus on your relationship without being limited by the traditional therapy hour.
Intensives can be especially helpful when couples feel stuck, are navigating significant relationship concerns, or simply want concentrated time to work on their relationship. Depending on the intensive selected, we may spend several hours or multiple days together.
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No. While intensives can be helpful for couples experiencing significant challenges, they can also be valuable for couples who want to strengthen an already meaningful relationship.
Some couples use an intensive as a relationship reset: a chance to reconnect, improve communication, address concerns before they grow, and intentionally invest in one another.
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Weekly therapy allows us to work gradually over time, while an intensive gives us several uninterrupted hours to go deeper without having to stop just as an important conversation begins.
The extended format allows more time for assessment, understanding relationship patterns, emotional processing, practicing new skills, and developing a plan for moving forward.
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You don't have to figure that out by yourself.
We can discuss what's happening within your relationship, what you hope to accomplish, and whether a shorter intensive, multi-day intensive, or traditional couples therapy would be the best fit.
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No therapist can guarantee a particular outcome for a relationship.
An intensive provides dedicated time, professional support, structure, and tools to help you understand your relationship more deeply and work toward meaningful change. Ultimately, the decisions you make about your relationship belong to the two of you.
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Yes. Sometimes being part of a couple brings up things that need individual attention.
You may want support processing anxiety, past experiences, boundaries, self-worth, betrayal, or simply understanding how you show up within relationships. Individual therapy can provide a space to focus specifically on you, whether or not your partner participates in therapy.
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Regular couples and individual therapy sessions are offered virtually, allowing you to meet from a private and comfortable space while still receiving personalized, interactive support.
Couples Intensives are the exception and are offered in person. Because intensives involve extended, focused time together, the in-person setting provides a dedicated space where couples can step away from everyday distractions and focus fully on their relationship.
If you're looking for ongoing couples or individual therapy, we'll meet virtually. If you're interested in a more immersive, face-to-face experience, an in-person Couples Intensive may be the right fit for you.
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There isn't one timeline that fits every couple or individual. Your goals, history, current concerns, and the type of therapy you choose all influence how long we work together.
We'll regularly discuss your progress and what you need rather than assuming therapy needs to continue indefinitely.
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The first session is an opportunity for me to learn about you and for you to decide whether I feel like the right therapist for you.
For couples, we'll begin exploring your relationship history, strengths, current concerns, patterns, and what each of you hopes will be different. From there, we'll begin identifying goals and determining the best approach for our work together.
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That's completely understandable. Talking to someone about the most personal parts of your relationship can feel vulnerable.
You don't need to arrive knowing exactly what to say or how to fix things. That's part of my role: to help create a warm, structured environment where difficult conversations can become a little easier to have.
Ready to Get Started?
You don't have to have everything figured out before reaching out.
Maybe you know exactly what needs to change, or maybe you simply know that something doesn't feel right anymore. Either way, therapy can be a place to begin.
Whether you're looking to strengthen your relationship, reconnect with your partner, work through a difficult season, or focus on your own personal growth, I would be honored to support you in taking that next step.